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Sure, maybe you weren’t drawing unicorns and rainbows with his name surrounded by hearts in your notebook, but you are definitely a strong believer that you’re “meant to be together.” As romantic as all that sounds, it actually damages your chances for success in actually starting something.
Let’s look at why: To put it quite plainly, you want something that simply is not reality.
See, while you were listening to him sulk about his broken heart and smoothing his hair, new girl appeared out of nowhere as a limited-edition item.
She attracted him and in some way made it clear (usually without a word) that if he wants her, he needs to act now or lose his shot. But the new girl who just entered the picture is completely fresh – he can act like whomever he wants to appear to be and she’ll accept that that’s who he is.
It’s an: “It’s not you, it’s me” situation, except it comes before any relationship has even happened.
Problem is, your feelings for him and what your relationship are just an illusion.
Just talk with them and get some guys interested in you.
Who knows, you might even end up meeting a better guy in the process. cause it won’t work if you only did the parts you wanted to do and ignored the rest. But assuming that you: 1) Really, truly accepted being just friends 2) Maximized your look so that you’re now a smoking hot mama 3) Racked up a whole bunch of potential guys who are interested in you It’s time to pull the trigger. You get to see him as the man he truly is – an unguarded version of himself that he hides from the world and only seems to let you see. So why, in the midst of this seemingly perfect situation, aren’t you any more than friends?Or worse, why (when you told him how you felt about him) does he say, “I really love you.You never know if your true destiny is to meet your perfect man by accident… Open your options up so that you know that you’re not dependent on just one option. I almost feel evil for saying it, but for some guys just seeing that he might lose his shot with a girl can be all he needs to snap to attention and reconsider his feelings for you… Worth noting, but in this case don’t make this your focus. 2) He knows he can put up a front and the new girl will buy it… But with you, you what he’s still struggling with … Sometimes a guy just wants a vacation from himself and his problems.Sure, these arrangements usually end up melting down (maybe in a week, a month or a year), but during that time he gets to postpone dealing with his issues and can numb his pain with a simple girl who doesn’t unearth any skeletons … 3) The new girl had the advantage of a fresh “mystique” – that is, he doesn’t know anything about her and she put up a dazzling image that completely seduced him.There are some great guys out there that have had their heart broken one to many times.And by the time they’re in your life, they have a lot of unclaimed baggage that they have yet to resolve.The reality is that when someone hasn’t healed past hurts and relationship wounds, they really aren’t ready to get into a new relationship.( For much more on this topic, make sure to read my article How Guys Deal With Breakups) Now there have been times where the so-called damaged guy jumps into a relationship seemingly out of the blue after months or even years of lamenting about how “damaged” he is.This can happen for a few reasons: 1) The new girl he jumps in with completely take him out of that “mode” or “funk” he was caught up in.