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Pros and cons of dating a player
Of course, a lot of people start from “less romantic” and work their way up to include more romance as the relationship develops, but this is a way to get those results a bit quicker I guess. Perhaps the biggest problem I see with the approach of hard to get is that you are actually sending all the same signals as someone who is not interested.
An older man usually has an established work, social and home life. Older men are often looking for something consistent. You won’t catch yourself with lingering thoughts of other lovers or competition.And usually the game of playing hard to get is put into effect to create more of a chase.When you don’t want someone to just be able to get you and find you out and build romance with you right away, but by revealing yourself in parts, things are kept interesting.You might love his deep pockets, but with his great power comes your vulnerability.There is potential that you could never be financially equal to him, accepting this is key.A less extreme extension of the idea is that of “playing hard to get”.This is a strategy that both men and women implement, although it seems like it has more prominence as a female strategy. Short, terse responses that only come a few days after their message. Wearing certain clothing and playing more on the non-verbals.The video linked to an external page with another video (like a Babushka doll of ads) where these two guys proceeded to talk about the reason why many guys don’t get the girl.They went on to talk about the typical “nice guy” approach, and how most guys approach relationships wanting to give a girl security and confidence in their interest.You may need to start skipping the traditional Thursday through Sunday bar scene with the girls to appease his lifestyle.While this may seem like a much-needed break, there is potential for you to end up at a home-dinner party socializing with a group that may tell you about their son or daughter that is “just about your age.” Awkward. Dating someone 20 to 30 years older than you means you’re probably going to see time take its toll in many ways.